When one leave the world, some say this is the end of his life but i would say it's the beginning of a new life. Whether it is a new life to a new born baby(the soul from the dead went to the new born baby) or new life for the one who leave the world. He is still, having a new life. Beginning of a new life is not a bad thing ! :)
Leaving a world shouldn't be filled with sorrow and sadness. In fact, it is a relief for him. It will not be as happy as winning a lottery but for sure it should not be a sad one. It depends how you look into it. If he enjoy his life, he will leave with no regret, and vice versa. In chinese saying 死而无悔.
Moreover, i guess she didn't leave alone right. :) There is so much of care and love pouring to her and i think she is glad that all of you is healthy to be there.
This is part of the life. For her and for her close one too. You got to learn to stay strong, tight yourself up and move on. Every incident follow by a moral/lesson. This is the lesson of appreciation of one's life. You learnt it, you grew up. You are getting more mature and know how to handle your emotion better. Let your emotion flow out, it is part of the learning process. Do not hold it, it will be more suffering. Crying does not means that you are weak. What's important is you able to stand up after this.
Rest well. When you wake up tomorrow, it will be another brand new day with lots more challenges for you. If there are no challenges no obstacles no barrier, one will never grow up.
Say thank you for letting it happen and make you stronger to face the world.
Afterall, this is L-I-F-E.
I type this out in like 10 mins. Forgive my mistakes/voca or anything. ><
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Dedicate this, for my friend
Posted by KienFei at 1:44 AM