Reason for not updating my blog : I just love to listen or read but not write or speak. :) Damn, I'm just so lazy. :(

Selfish-ness

I feel I very selfish, most of the times.

I talk to you happily,excited when I wanted to. I never talk to you when I don't feel like talking(which most of time is I tired or moody)

Is it just me or everyone also the same?

Sometimes my friend play a fool at me and I will fool him back or joke with him.
Sometimes my friend play a fool at me and I just smile reluctancy.

Or is is I got double personality. This is just one of the example of myself, there is more that i feel I am weird. Hmmmm..

Dedicate this, for my friend

When one leave the world, some say this is the end of his life but i would say it's the beginning of a new life. Whether it is a new life to a new born baby(the soul from the dead went to the new born baby) or new life for the one who leave the world. He is still, having a new life. Beginning of a new life is not a bad thing ! :)

Leaving a world shouldn't be filled with sorrow and sadness. In fact, it is a relief for him. It will not be as happy as winning a lottery but for sure it should not be a sad one. It depends how you look into it. If he enjoy his life, he will leave with no regret, and vice versa. In chinese saying 死而无悔.

Moreover, i guess she didn't leave alone right. :) There is so much of care and love pouring to her and i think she is glad that all of you is healthy to be there.

This is part of the life. For her and for her close one too. You got to learn to stay strong, tight yourself up and move on. Every incident follow by a moral/lesson. This is the lesson of appreciation of one's life. You learnt it, you grew up. You are getting more mature and know how to handle your emotion better. Let your emotion flow out, it is part of the learning process. Do not hold it, it will be more suffering. Crying does not means that you are weak. What's important is you able to stand up after this.

Rest well. When you wake up tomorrow, it will be another brand new day with lots more challenges for you. If there are no challenges no obstacles no barrier, one will never grow up.

Say thank you for letting it happen and make you stronger to face the world.

Afterall, this is L-I-F-E.

I type this out in like 10 mins. Forgive my mistakes/voca or anything. ><

STUNNING SENIOR MOMENT

A very self-important college freshman attending a recent football game,took it upon himself to explain to a senior citizen sitting next to him why it was impossible for the older generation to understand his generation.

"You grew up in a different world, actually an almost primitive one," the student said, loud enough for many of those nearby to hear.

"The young people of today grew up with television, jet planes, space travel, manwalking on the moon, our spaceships have visited Mars. We have nuclearenergy, electric and hydrogen cars, computers with DSL, bsp; light-speedprocessing ....and," pausing to take another drink of beer.

The Senior took advantage of the break in the student's litany and said,

"You're right, son. We didn't have those things when we were young.....so we invented them. Now, you arrogant little shit, what are you doing for thenext generation?"

The applause was resounding...

I love senior citizens ..

Inspiration

Early in the morning woke up by alarm clock, means I am still alive.

Can find a furthest parking slot, means I still able to walk, and I am lucky enough to own a car.

Tiring of working whole day, means I still got the will to fight.

I pay the tax, means I got a job.

Got a bunch of clothes to wash and iron, means I got clothes to wear.

Clothes get tighter and tighter, means I got food to eat.

Iron Man

Watched the iron man on friday night. Not a really bad movie but to me, it's just another superhero movie :) Great graphic great robot great effect.. it's, ok lah.. ^^

Oh ya btw guys, if you going to watch it, remember to wait till the end of the credit. That's a preview about The Avenger, the next superhero movie :)


Had a overnight mahjong session with ws and jeb. We had a crazy saturday/sunday. We thought of going to setapak to find xiao yin yam cha but it turn out to be a yam cha session in genting. lol~ thanks to suzanne ^^v I got to be the drive and hold the 4 life's responsible. -_- If you are in my car, you can hear all the screaming, shouting, warning, and everything from them.

"Fei, slow down !~"
"Lower gear !~"
"Got car ! GOT CAR !"
"Go slow man man lai."

And yea after that around 1am we mahjong till 12pm and i lose rm17, (as usual) bully by two pro mahjong kaki. zZzZzZzz
Till then. (Going out for dinner)

Promise?

I made a so called "promise" that isn't sound like a promise to me in front of ws and joyce during our dinner time on weds. Hmmm.. actually not really a promise. Just that i want to love myself more. :) So i promise myself to do something. Hehehe~ How far i can keep my promise ? ;)

What a Blue Day

Few things been running in my mind today. Hmm.. should be 3 i guess.

1. Future
2. Current internship job
3. Love/Like/Friendship = Relationship
   
   Lazy to blog. Moodless, sienness, sleepiness. See you soon, my blog.

The Future..untold

Well, I should start of with this real "story". Here goes the story :
Recently, Vincenzo Yeoh Wei Shiang is troubled with the decision of joining Singapore Airline as a air-steward. It is a high pay job, can travel to lots of places and bla bla bla... (many benefits-not going any further into it,quite a long story :x). My point is, he is studying advertising and he already have a draft plan of how his future path is. He planned how things go and how things come etc etc but BOOM, a job opportunity pop up in front of him. Planned future? Now he got to plan his future again.

Moral of the story :

1. You can plan your future, decision made throughout will alter your planned future.
2. There is a lot of decision to made in your life that will affect you, your friend and our family.
3. Draft your future not plan your future.
4. Life is realistic.(Yes, it is ! Agree with me or die)

My future or should i say everyone's future is untold, unpredictable, planable but yet, won't turn out to be what you planned. Sometimes I will think of my future, and it make me trembles. I got this image when I think about it, my future which is a very blur, full with mist and hazy condition. Seriously, I dare not to stay there any longer. I dare not to think of my future, yet.

Marketing lessons

1. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and say, 'I am very rich. Marry me!' That's DIRECT MARKETING.

2. You are at a party with a bunch of friends and see a gorgeous girl. One of your friends goes up to her and pointing at you says, 'He's very rich. Marry him!' That's ADVERTISING.

3. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You go up to her and get her telephone number. The next day, you call her and say, 'Hi, I am very rich. Marry me!' That's TELEMARKETING.

4. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You get up and straighten your tie. You walk up to her and pour her a drink. You open the door for her. You pick up her bag after she drops it. You offer her a ride and you say, 'By the way, I am very rich. Will you marry me?' That's PUBLIC RELATIONS.

5. You see a gorgeous girl at a party.She walks up to you and says, 'You are very rich. Can you marry me?' That's BRAND RECOGNITION.

6. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You walk up to her and say, 'I am very rich. Marry me!' She gives you a nice hard slap on your face. That's CUSTOMER FEEDBACK .

7. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You walk up to her and say, I am very rich. Marry me!' And she introduces you to her husband. That's DEMAND AND SUPPLY GAP.

8. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You walk up to her and before you can say anything, another person comes along and tells her, 'I am very rich. Marry me!' That's MARKET COMPETITION.

9. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You walk up to her and before you can say anything, another person comes along and tells her, 'I am very rich. Marry me! And she follows him. That's LOSING MARKET SHARE .

10. You see a gorgeous girl at a party. You walk up to her and before you can say, 'I am very rich. Marry me!', YOUR WIFE TURNS UP! That's BARRIER TO NEW MARKET ENTRY.

Work work work

I had been working for 3 weeks, into the 4th week now. Going to be one month soon. What can i say about this internship ? Hmmm.. at first it is rather interesting where there is a lot of things to see, to observe and to learn. But when times go on, its so dull ! I'm doing the same thing everyday again and again. What people say, "hangat-hangat tahi ayam"?

Check the vertically of wall, check the rebar (reinforcement bar), secondary bar, check the slab placing, check the staircase, check the door & window opening dimension, check the beam dimension and it's rebar, check this check that... wow it seems a lot but you can learn it in like 1 day. YES ! I been doing all this checking in this 3 weeks.

It is just like our study. When we are in primary school, we will think of secondary school will be nicer because of afternoon class or maybe morning class. When we are in secondary school, we will think of college/university life will be better. When we are in college/university, we are tired of study and we will think of working life. Human ah human, we are all the same. We just want to change environment periodically. Maybe it's only me, maybe. Tell me if you are like me too :)

It is applicable to our intention to change too. Someone told me this when she was in secondary school : "When i'm in university life, i will change, i will be more hardworking, i will be more bla bla bla.. " But in the end? She still end up being herself during secondary school, still slacking.
So, my point is : "If you want to change, change NOW, when you still got the motivation to change !"

Management lessons

Lesson 1:

A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower, when the doorbell rings. The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. When she opens the door, there stands Bob, the next-door neighbor.Before she says a word, Bob says, "I'll give you $800 to drop that towel."After thinking for a moment, the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob, after a few seconds, Bob hands her $800 and leave s. The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs. When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks, "Who was that?""It was Bob the next door neighbor," she replies."Great," the husband says, "did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?"

Moral of the story:If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time, you may be in a position to prevent avoidable expo sure.


Lesson 2:

A priest offered a Nun a lift. She got in and crossed her legs, forcing her gown to reveal a leg. The priest nearly had an accident. After controlling the car, he stealthily slid his hand up her leg.The nun said, "Father, remember Psalm 129?" The priest removed his hand, bu t, changing gears, he let his hand slide up her leg again. The nun once again said, "Father, remember Psalm 129?"The priest apologized "Sorry sister but the flesh is weak."Arriving at the convent, the nun sighed heavily and went on her way.On his arrival at the church, the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129. It said, "Go forth and seek, further up, you will find glory."

Moral of the story:If you are not well informed in your job, you might miss a great opportunity.


Lesson 3:

A sales rep, an administration clerk, and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp. They rub it and a Genie comes out.The Genie says, "I'll give each of you just one wish.""Me first! Me first!" says the admin clerk. "I want to be in the Bahamas , driving a speedboat, without a care in the world."Puff! She's gone."Me next! Me next!" says the sales rep. "I want to be in Hawaii , relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse, an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life."Puff! He's gone."OK, you're up," the Genie says to the manager.The manager says, "I want those two back in the office after lunch."

Moral of the story:Always let your boss have the first say.


Lesson 4

An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing. A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing?"The eagle answered: "Sure, why not."So, the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested. All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.

Moral of the story:To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.


Lesson 5

A turkey was ch atting with a bull. "I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree" sighed the turkey, "but I haven't got the energy.""Well, why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?" replied the bull. They're packed with nutrients."The turkey pecked at a lump of dung, and found it actually gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree. The next day, after eating some more dung, he reached the second branch. Finally after a fourth night, the turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree.He was promptly spotted by a farmer, who shot him out of the tree.

Moral of the story:Bullshit might get you to the top, but it won't kee p you there..


Lesson 6

When the body was first made, all the parts wanted to be Boss. The brain said, "I should be Boss because I control the whole body's responses and functions." The feet said, "We should be Boss as we carry the brain about and get him to where he wants to go." The hands said, "We should be the Boss because we do all the work and earn all the money." And so it went on and on with the heart, the lungs and the eyes until finally the asshole spoke up. Al! l the parts laughed at the idea of the asshole being the Boss. So the asshole went on strike, blocked itself up and refused to work. Within a short time the eyes became crossed, the hands clenched, the feet twitched, the heart and lungs began to panic and the brain fevered. Eventually they all decided that the asshole should be the Boss, so the motion was passed. All the other parts did all the work while the Boss just sat and passed out the shit!

Moral of the story: You don't need brains to be a Boss - any asshole will do.


Lesson 7

A little bird was flying south for the winter. It was so cold, the bird froze and fell to the ground in a large field. While it was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on it. As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, it began to realize how warm it was. The dung was actually thawing him out! He lay there all warm! and happy, and soon began to sing for joy. A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him!

Moral of the story:
1) Not everyone who drops shit on you is your enemy.
2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.
3) And when you're in deep shit, keep your mouth shut!

Interesting Facts

In the 1400's a law was set forth in England that a man was allowed to beat his wife with a stick no thicker than his thumb. Hence, we have "the rule of thumb".

Many years ago in Scotland , a new game was invented. It was ruled "Gentlemen Only...Ladies Forbidden"...and thus the word GOLF entered into the English language.

The first couple to be shown in bed together on prime time TV were Fred and Wilma Flintstone.

Every day more money is printed for Monopoly than the U.S. Treasury.

Men can read smaller print than women can; women can hear better.

Coca-Cola was originally green.

It is impossible to lick your elbow.

The State with the highest percentage of people who walk to work: Alaska

The percentage of Africa that is wilderness: 28% (now get this...)
The percentage of North America that is wilderness: 38%

The cost of raising a medium-size dog to the age of eleven: $ 16,400

The average number of people airborne over the U.S. in any given hour: 61,000

Intelligent people have more zinc and copper in their hair.

The first novel ever written on a typewriter: Tom Sawyer.

The San Francisco Cable cars are the only mobile National Monuments.

Each king in a deck of playing cards represents a great king from history:
Spades - King David
Hearts - Charlemagne
Clubs -Alexander, the Great
Diamonds - Julius Caesar

111,111,111 x 111,111,111 = 12,345,678,987,654,321

If a statue in the park of a person on a horse has both front legs in the air, the person died in battle. If the horse has one front leg in the air the person died as a result of wounds received in battle. If the horse has all four legs on the ground, the person died of natural causes.

Only two people signed the Declaration of Independence on July 4th, John Hancock and Charles Thomson. Most of the rest signed on August 2, but the last signature wasn't added until 5 years later.

In Shakespeare's time, mattresses were secured on bed frames by ropes. When you pulled on the ropes the mattress tightened, making the bed firmer to sleep on. Hence the phrase......... "goodnight, sleep tight."

It was the accepted practice in Babylon 4,000 years ago that for a month after the wedding, the bride's father would supply his son-in-law with all the mead he could drink. Mead is a honey beer and because their calendar was lunar based, this period was called the honey month, which we know today as the honeymoon.

In English pubs, ale is ordered by pints and quarts... So in old England , when customers got unruly, the bartender would yell at them "Mind your pints and quarts, and settle down." It's where we get the phrase "mind your P's and Q's"

Many years ago in England , pub frequenters had a whistle baked into the rim, or handle, of their ceramic cups. When they needed a refill, they used the whistle to get some service. "Wet your whistle" is the phrase inspired by this practice.

At least 75% of people who read this will try to lick their elbow!

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Q. Half of all Americans live within 50 miles of what?
A. Their birthplace
Q. Most boat owners name their boats. What is the most popular boat name requested?
A. Obsession
Q. If you were to spell out numbers, how far would you have to go until you would find the letter "A"?
A. One thousand
Q. What do bulletproof vests, fire escapes, windshield wipers, and laser printers all have in common?
A. All were invented by women.
Q. What is the only food that doesn't spoil?
A. Honey
Q. Which day are there more collect calls than any other day of the year?
A. Father's Day

YOU KNOW YOU ARE LIVING IN 200 7 when...
1. You accidentally enter your PIN on the microwave.
2. You haven't played solitaire with real cards in years.
3. You have a list of 15 phone numbers to reach your family of three.
4. You e-mail the person who works at the desk next to you.
5. Your reason for not staying in touch with friends and family is that they don't have e-mail addresses.
6. You pull up in your own driveway and use your cell phone to see if anyone is home to help you carry in the groceries.
7. Every commercial on television has a web site at the bottom of the screen
8. Leaving the house without your cell phone, which you didn't even have the first 20 or 30 (or 60) years of your life, is now a cause for panic and you turn around to go and get it.
10. You get up in the morning and go on line before getting your coffee.
11. You start tilting your head sideways to smile. : )
12. You're reading this and nodding and laughing.
13. Even worse, you know exactly to whom you are going to forward this message.
14. You are too busy to notice there was no #9 on this list.
15. You actually scrolled back up to check that there wasn't a #9 on this list.
~~~~~~~~~~~AND FINALLY~~~~~~~~~~~~ NOW U R LAUGHING at yourself.

Why blog?

This is because my friend ask me comment him but i need an account to comment him. So, just create an account here. :D Pretty good reason har? ^^